12 WEEKS!!!!!

So we had another appointment yesterday we got another ultrasound and met a new doctor. I personally did not like her. I asked her how she did with natural birth and said said she views natural birth as both c-section and vaginal birth.

So to be more clear for her i said i mean natural as in no pain meds and vaginal. She then told me that if i swear or spit at them then the pain would be to much and i WOULD HAVE to have pain med.

First off i will not be spitting at her so im not worried about that but i cant say that i wont swear i might cause it might hurt really bad. If she dont like it she should find a new job! i will not be getting pain meds and im sorry but they can not force me to do crap!

I also asked her how she felt about waiting till the for the cord to stop pulsating? she said they normally wait a min and then cut it. I then told her that we wanted to wait till it was done pulsating before it be cut cause we want the baby to have all the babies blood back in its body instead of still in the placenta.  She then said that she would still cut it only after a min cause she didnt want to wait. i find that to be unacceptable. I can understand that if the cord is around the babies neck or some other thing where it would hurt the baby or mother that it must be cut then but just cause your to lazy to wait is not a good enough reason for Rob or me.

She said that sometimes it can take up to 45 mins for the placenta to come out and that she dont want to wait the whole time for that to happen and the placenta to come out and then cut the cord. im pretty sure that it doesnt take that long for it to stop pulsating. She then tried to tell me that if i didnt cut the cord right away that the placenta could take to  long coming out and then she would have to to go in with her hand and arm and pull it out. That is so dumb first off even with the baby still attached by the cord your body will still have contractions which will make the placenta come. Im not stupid this is not my first baby i am not falling for her crap!

I then said i would put it in my Birth Plan that thats what i want. She then pretty much told me that what most people say they dont want to happen is what happens like it pisses her off so thats what she does. Fine goo a head and do that but just know ill sue the shit out of you if you force me to have pain meds, pit or any other med that brings on labor that is not natural and if you use instruments on my child that i do not okay and you leave bruising on them you can be sure that i will sue even if it doesnt lead to a settlement of cash it will still leave a mark on your name and career and that will make me more than happy!

 

Here is the new doctor we met.

Dr. Middleton is a graduate of the University of South Carolina Columbia Campus and the Medical University of South Carolina. She completed her residency at Franklin Square Hospital Center in Baltimore, Maryland. She joined Women’s Healthcare Associates and is a Board Eligible Obstetrics and Gynecology physician. Her accomplishments include the 2005 and 2006 William Scott Taylor, M.D. Award for Professionalism and first place award for the Nagey Symposium Research Presentation (Baltimore, MD) 2008. She resides in Jacksonville.

So we also went and had another ultrasound done. She took her time she spent at least an hour with us looking at our baby. She changed my LMP to 11/3 which kinda makes me mad cause i know when i had it but i guess its only a day so its not that bad. She also changed my due date to 8-10-10 which is also a day later. which i dont get why they changed it like that she said it was cause they were going with how big the baby measured with the ultrasound so by my old one that i had done they were changing me to be 12 weeks 2 days but when they did this ultrasound the baby measured to be 12 weeks 5 days so i would think with the logic she was saying that they would have moved my due date up and not back but whatever im still going with im gonna have this baby in July.   so here are lots of baby pics for you to enjoy.

here is the little bean just relaxing maybe thinking about supper or taking a nap it was really cool to watch the baby flip into that position.

in this one you can see the little feet and legs the arrow is pointing to the sex but since we are only 12 weeks and the female parts have not pulled back into the body yet she said that she couldnt get a good enough view to say for sure it wasnt a boy. but she sure did take a good long shot at trying to find out for us.

Here is a profile view for you to enjoy we were so happy when we seen this photo. the baby is sticking out its tongue. and just relaxing.

here she took another shot of its little feet and legs and the gender area. 

this pretty much tells it all with the words on the side but if you cant see what it says it says foot but its both feet. 

Here is another profile for you to look at. You can already tell that its going to be a beautiful baby!!! sorry about the finger prints that showed up when we scanned the pic we didnt notice it till we put it up on here. 

The heart rate was 158 just like before at the last ultrasound.  I thank god have not gained any weight in the first trimester which is almost done so hopefully i will stick with just the normal 30 pounds you are to gain that all goes away when you have the baby.  

I hope you have enjoyed looking at the ultrasound pics and well keep you updated on what the test come back saying in about a week when i talk about how the 13th week is going.